Girls Vs Boys

Well ,, since I have the time & Im Bored as hell...lol.. Figured I would share a few thoughts that I had discussed prior to this blogspot. I've been talking with a few of my guy friends...Seems like most of them come to me for advice...haha not too sure on why. Still yet an unsolved Mystery.

Well than boys...

THIS IS FOR YOU!!!

Rather than me overly REPEAT MYSELF with emails the phone calls and talking on MSN.I thought would make a standard plot on paper sorta deal.... (yes Whitey this is for u!! lol.....)

If you didn't message me, or talked to me about you're relationships, then this is not for you. If you do happen to read this and your clueless about the do's and don't's about dating, than ya I guess you can read........but actually DO IT,,and take some advice!!!! lol...

Geez who Am'I to give out pointers about dating,??? haven't had much success yet :-S
Ah Oh well, you asked the questions (many of you) and I will BE happy to give you my input.....

When I said about the fact of not liking when a guy tells me I'm Hot,,, I think you may took my words and miss read them READ in between the lines...

Every girl wants to hear that they are Beautiful,, Sexy,, those are the main ones....HOT is so NOT!!!! but really mean it when you say it.
In other words just don't say it to get us to sleep with you!! We know the lines and if you want to make a comment about us, then say something clever, "like i like your hair that way" or "wow your eyes really look good in that shirt" Rather than Damnn girl your HOT,,!!!!

We know we look HOT tell us something we didn't think of. Alright so you wanna know more about romance,???? Hmmm well if you're single and over 29, hmm maybe theres a reason why you are single??? lol..Sorry but by that age YOU should know how to be more romantic and not have to ask me or any other girl on " How to Be More Romantic"...But whatever I guess everyone grows a lil slower than some... SO, in the secret girl language.. ( and don't act like you don't care about us) We know you do!!! HELL it's fricken SEXY when I guy can tell you that he cares and let some emotion out. Don't beso insensitive and cold!!! Its not HOT at all and certainly wont get you any """extra points"" (in the sack!!!!)

Lets see, you can start with opening car doors once in awhile,, not all the time,, but sure makes us feel good..You can give massages, (who doesn't like a massage???!!!!) umm,, of course there is ALWAYS FLOWERS & CARDS!!!! & if you don't know what kind she really likes,well take her to the Flower part in the grocery store next time (even say your getting flowers for your mom or something and ask her what does she think you should get) yes little lies are ok,,,when it comes to things like that...

Now all this depends on where you are in the relationship or if you want to get her attention etc...Small things are the Best,, over trying just gets messy !!!! Send her txt msg, that your missing her or you cant wait till you see her next!!! Or Call and leave a message when you know she cant answer her phone.. If you haven't Called you girl any pet names... than do it!! Hun and babe,, makes us feel important.. What about asking about her DAY?? ever thought about that one???
Do something thats creative and fun and don't tell her where you are taking her!! Make it a surprise!!!!! Rather than a movie,. Movies/dinner are good, but sometimes it's nice to be surprised..Make dinner for her,, rather than going out!!!!

Don't feel like if we want to pay sometimes that your less of a man or something..... ( if we want to buy the next round of beers just SAY THANK YOU and enjoy your free beer!!!! )
We want to help and flip the bill too,, (unless they are selfish and gold diggers than,,DUMP HER!!!)

Now here comes the sticky part, you gotta make sure your girl knows she is the only one YOU want to be with or interested in. If your out there pickin up other pussy cats than stop!!! Get out of a relationship,,,, !!! Thats sooo not cool, playing around is so last season... !!! Not saying you cant look,,,( yes we look too) just be respectful..
Would you like it if you found out your girl was freakin some guy on the dance floor buyin her drinks and kissin her neck as he is sayin the things you NEVER TELL HER!!!! hmmm dudes think about it... Being cold,, and insensitive,, is something that will not end good... She will get tired and either leave or go find someone else that tends to her needs
(YES there is romantic guys out there!! I know that ..So you do have competition!!!) Or she will Cheat, perhaps stay with you for a bit and just end it.Have you notice you fight a lot?? She nags about you goin out with your buddies, the dishes, how you drive, or anything and everything...?? ( in other words if you haven't done anyone of those things at least once!?!?!.Secretly she is trying to grab your attention!!!) Treat your girls right,, most of you don't even know what you have until its gone!!!

Hmmmm hmmmmm sound familiar????? All I'm saying is that we want to feel important and appreciated and that you care. Show it and if your buddies call you whipped and a pussy ,, ( lol they are just pissed cuz you got her first!!!) So grab her hand while walking down the street we don't want the MOON given to us, we just want you to show that you want ONLY us and care!!! Now for some you guys have already did the BIG "L" word,, now saying I love you is certainly for those who are in more serious relationships..

Now don't say it until you mean it!!! Don't say it if you have recently said it to some other girl (if thats he case YOUR AN ASSHOLE!!!) in a email on the phone on a date, if your getting in bed with more than one women at a time ( and she doesn't know about it) listen up, you will get yours sooner or later, unless its an open relationship and you both agree on seeing other ppl than fine!!

but

good luck!! .,.,

If you told her your just with ONLY her and your not!! (I know who you are!!!) sorry hun,, but you gotta stop it!!! Just be single than,.. young girls don't deserve it and your risking a lot.... And you wonder why there are crazy bitches out there,, cuz they got burned by one too many ASSHOLES that cheat and play around!!! Sorry had to say it,,

As for SEX!!!! Yea we all want you to be good in bed!! (yes sadly we compare you to our ex bf's,) Sorry but if your just worried about ONLY you chances are you will get it less and less of a chance that we will say yes to sex..Every girl wants to pleased just like you so if your not taking your time making sure her pipes are up and running than maybe next time you want to make the moves than we might JUST have a head ache that night,, !!

So touch your girl,,EVERYWHERE!!! if you want her to play with your Tool in your toolbox, you gotta make sure we are getting the deed done too!! Quickies are fun don't get me wrong can be hot and exciting but foreplay is key at times!!! If your not sure...ask her!!!!!. Chances are if you take the time to make sure she is all hot and ready to go,, she will BE more than willing to give it back...

On a GOOD point,, if your just a guy who is kinda ruff when it comes to dating,, take my advice,, think about what would you like,, such as if we are in the mall and we remember that you wanted to latest DVD on the family guy and we see it, there's a good chances that we might pick it up and surprise you!! You make us feel important and you think of us than chances are we will do the same!!!!

I hope i answered everything and do try somethings

just might get you somewhere!!!

Wish You Shoulda, Woulda,Coulda, ,???

So I came to the conclusion that there are many things in this haywire life of mine that always seems to come down to just 3 words.... (read the title above,, don't feel like typing it!!!!) Always something that I would change , do over again and perhaps would never do in the first place. A lot of things have to do with either men, places I went, things that I should of said, resulting in so many different conclusions on what my life may have been like..Don't get me wrong..Cant say Im not happy most of the time. Some things have changed for the better.;)
Have you ever stop to think that you are living the life your "suppose to" ??? Are we doing what we are meant out to seek, learn, feel, and emotionally go threw??. How do you know when your accomplishments are done, when your blindly walking threw you're daily tasks and adventures...Is there such a thing for us to have a purpose?? If so, whats your personal purpose. ? and if we dont conquer that, do we get a second chance? I'm not really sure on what to make of my personal purpose, am'I really who I'am or has it already been slightly written for me?,. That we all have this invisible era that has been planned out.. Every decision we make every choice, every dare, every mistake; do we go threw these things because its the road that we are suppose to take.

Saying The Right things

Have you ever just wanted someone to say something to you, or perhaps something that to you just needed to hear??... .. . and never seem to get it??... Or they say things that are completely the opposite on what you want to actually wanted to know. Or even worse say nothing at all..

.Silence can either make you or break you.

Wish I had the power to go threw someone's mind and be able to know what their thinking. Not all the time....but in certain situations would be awesome.. Somethings you just need to know and the information is not there and way in the distance just completely untouchable. This past 2 years has been crazy, frustrating yet spontaneously amazing too.

They say there are signs that can tell you almost anything about someone and how they feel. Signs??? I must be off my rocker and totally out of tune cause I'm missing something with all this sign searching. If you don't tell people how things are how are you suppose to know ?

Is there really a such thing as mind reading??

I just recently have been helping out an guy pal of mine with your typical "women" problems. Seems like men they go threw the same things we do.. He's a bit younger than me and seems to come to me for advice...Actually a lot of people come to me with their relationship problems., Even though I can barely take on my own relationship problems. But I try and help and give them the best advice with what I've experienced.

Which got me thinking,... .... ... .. . .

Why does it always seem to be the "sweet" or "nice" men/women that get treated like Shit ?? Ruining the inner beauty of people that actually treat others the way one is suppose too, they have been balled around with an anti love chain . This world is cold, with cold people in it and is just getting worse. Why are we so afraid to love?
Seems like everyone's afraid to fall in love with someone, be their selfs and give it their all. I tend to second doubt everyone in my life.
I've been so disabled when it comes to letting my "true" feelings out. Rethinking everything out more than once to the point I drive myself on second guessing everything and anything,. My feelings, their feels, the "Why's, Does and the When's" .... Why is he really with me? Does he really mean the things he says?? and When will I see his true colours?? When does he start to change??...
I just wish I can just let things happen without thinking about my broken heart and worrying about emotionally getting hurt again.,..and again... I'm not a serious person at all. But I do have this HUGE wall that seems to be getting bigger and bigger. One thing can throw me off, one thing can make me reconsider things, Why I'am with this person, are they up to something, I'am just another fun hot fling??? I do this without any real reason but my own. Most of the time I get proven wrong either because I end up ended it before I get emotionally attached, Or it just so happens that I was over- thinking things out.

"The little Things"

Too Often We Underestimate
The power of a Touch or a Smile
The simplest compliment
or the smallest act of kindness

all of which has potential

of turnings one's
life around

Is Bloggin the new 08'???

Recently I came to conclusion that Blogging isn't all too bad..Others may think it as a way to publicly revealing your life -like a rock-star without the star life.- While I have another opinion to that. You don't have tell all, and frankly you don't even have to talk about whats going on in your so-called-life as well. Theres lots of randomly uneventful , yet opinionated things you can bore people about in your blog.
Give and take there are some that cant enough of openly admitting on how they live their life with details grant ya. I prefer the more less unrevealing and just plain out blahing more than blogging -pointless gestures that are full of randomness opinions that one could ever blog bout. Yes I'm completely boring and I love it!!.. I wont say any names...But Yes, "my names Heather and I'm a blogger"!!......
According to other sources blogging is remotely pointless...pssshhh.. We all have our 'ings" we like to do, Gamin, singin, facebookin, hackin, myspacin, golfin, there just hobbies, some take in a lil too much and mistakenly make it more of a part time job! Full -timers need treatment.!!!
So if you dont like it,, dont read it. I like to write, getting all my creative yet unmeaning things out, so my brain doesn't over heat...lol.. Judgment gets you no- where but lonely and with no friends. Or with friends that feel sorry for you and are just there cause they feel bad. hehe, Nah, people are not like that?? haha, yah ok, there's more fake people out there than there is Realism.
Whatever happen to just telling how it is. ?? Doing what you want, with no worries on what others are going to think. Welcome to the real world folks where judgment is not a flaw and people who try not judge others with one's Gossip and juicy 411's is not in with the new "in" . We all do it, talk about one another, gossip, and what not.. You don't hear someone talk bout their own Gossip. Unless they are completely into themselves. I don't mean good gossip either.
Girls tend to gossip more,,,,,bawahahaha,, um mm WRONG,... Both are charged equally!!
Men do it too..Not always all the same topic..You barely hear guys say, "hey dude turn around, see that guy?? what the hell was he thinking dressing like that???....Or do they??? ....

Another off the score board topic..Was at work today, I guess when your a housekeeper you tend to be invisible to others who think they are more important and more valuable. I had about 3-4 nurses just walk in front of me ,walk on my CLEAN "wet" floor, talk above me, and completely ignore that fact that I was there. Nothing against nurses. Please really, but its soo true. Doctors as well...Had one this one Doctor,... I was changing a garbage bag and as I was Putting a "New" bag in the garbage bucket, he threw his nasty snotty Kleenex in it. Hello,, whats up Doc?? Do you not see I'm changing the bag?? Wait Goddamn 5 seconds until I put I new on in!! Not like I walked away or anything leaving it bag less...Hello,,,I was standing Right over it with a new garbage bag in my hands...!Some peoples kids,,Ill tell ya..And this was a Doctor????, educated sure, but no manners. The stuff you see and the way you tend to get treated because of your job title, is unreal. People are so rude, and only thinking bout them selfs, instead of all working together!! Cant we all just work together?? Im in the same union make pretty much the same wages, but my job title does acquire cleaning people's asses and giving out meds. Don't come crying to me when you stumble over a wet floor sign making it CLEAR to you that the floor is wet and you slip. Wait a few minutes and go in there when its dry!!!! Frustrates me to the bitter bone!!!

Relationships 101

So under the least...my day was filled with lots of interesting yet profoundly irrelevant things that had nothing to do with me......oh boy someone else's drama...
couldn't get any more disturbing yet I was drawn to it.!!

Like a fly circling around a lit light bulb for hours...nothing could distract me now!!! I was hooked ,,figured hell its someone else's worries not mine...for once..!! haha...
So I manage to keep it collective and perhaps threw my opinions here and there..Hey don't want to sound too involved right???..Until I realized I was too involved and I was actually being asked on self help and the big "what to Do's".. Shit... I'm not Dr. Phil,, nor Oprah...do I look like I could possibly help anyone...expect help with minor things.
The topic was about relationships. Oh boy... Sure, sit down have a seat,,got lots of info about that...I wanted to say to her your bf was a looser and you need to get rid of him before you hit more serious issues. But of course who listens to that..So I went with a friend of a friend story.. Seems to hit people with the reality moreless. Snap out of it girl, who needs a man with no intentions of ever making a future with you. In this day of age people tend to forget what they want, sit back and let the other person in the relationship run the show. Not sure where the show came from...but someone is always wanting to run it. I say fuck the show and make it dual.
She made it very clear that she wasn't happy and both had different views in life that were so off the record books. So continuing with my girl talk show down.
I was trying to make a point to her. That when it comes to dating theres always gives and takes. He didn't want kids... she did,...he didn't want to get married...she did...
There's a huge tie breaker right there. Your own wants and needs in a relationship can get tricky. If you really want something and the other person clearly doesn't. There's no point of even wasting time watching your relationship blossom into resentment. Unless your willing to not fill that manger void. Another thing she complained about was the way he was treating her.. Now I should talk. I've probably took more than what I should as a women and a person in ones life..But I was young and inane with fact that I was even worth something and I should be valued and treated equally. So therefore, now that I've been there done that so to speak, I can understand where problems can lie and whats really worth taking a second look. When your dating a man (in some cases boys) clearly he should be taking after your safety. Now I know this is 2008 and women are independent creatures . But whens its 3am in the morning and your bf is driving he's group of friends home and he doesn't make sure you at least take a taxi home . There is a problem. Now a days, people are cruel, things happen that shouldn't and a young girl walking home late at night in the middle of city, where's there drunks, punks trying to just have some fun. A young girl is a nice target. I'm sorry but if my bf doesn't at least take an interest in my safety then what does he care about??..
Now if something was to happen, and the police were involved , the statement would go something like this..".Well I was with my boyfriend with his friends, kissed him goodbye and I started walking home...??" ..what was your bf doing??
"He was driving he's friends home".....and made you walk??? wft???.... I don't care how far it is. It's the point of him not taking any care in world of your wellbeing. If you really care about a person, you want to make sure they get to where ever they are going safely,, am'I wrong?? ...Doesn't matter where to, where from, or how long it takes. Hell you care about your friends well being over someone your in a romantic relationship with?? I was flipped my lid when she told me this.
As she continued on, I got to thinking... Society in general makes the title being "single " such a horrible thing. I beg to differ. Sure its nice to cuddle up, kiss, yes there is always the sex, hold hands....blah blah...but whats the point when thats all it is. Unless of course thats what you want.
We all think that there's that special someone out there for us. When its all about timing. Secretly in our minds we know that the person that we are with at the particular moment is someone we want to be with, we just afraid to see it. Some cover it by saying "well they do this and they do that". But if there's more bad times than good times. Is there any point of staying miserable ?? Sure your happy sometimes. But if the things they are doing are certainly not livable and changeable. Than face the facts, you're worth more. Are we so scared to be alone that we bare and grim all the things we don't really want?? Took me a long time realize that there is always better, dating is a learning experience and you don't bite into the first apple you pick,...You have took look around a bit and find a nice looking no bruises clean cut apple..Some you find real quick and some may take a lil longer....Dating is like picking apples. You know when you find a rotten one and you know when found a good one!!!

Evaluation ?? Just a Matter of Thinking?

So I woke this Morning....Hoping that Ill be feeling a lil bit better....Looks that like the more you sleep the more you feel like you've been hit across the head with a steal ratchet! ..Woke-up to the guy up-stairs listening to his loud metal music. Got me to wonder if I can hear his overly annoying tunes which was not really that loud even from listening from the hall ,,,, can you hear what I'm doing????....If you just listen,,, you can hear a lot. Seems like the walls are made out paper which can only mean yes,, he can hear everything I do. He's been here for 2 years,, perhaps has everyone in this building know whats been going on in my life with all the fights, the yelling, the 2am phone calls and unnecessary objects flying across the room. If so,, welcome all to live Jerry Springer and I'm the Unknown host. At this particular moment I'm not starting out my "New" of New Year out very well.. My cats In heat, and I want to cough up a lung. I'm getting to the point that the Indoor cat I once had ,, might be an Outdoor cat... I may just mistakingly leave the front door open. You think they would get the picture after so many unbelievable and unnecessary loud cries, that they would face the fact they are not getting any cat ass.. If female human acted like this, the world will never be that same. Bad enough the female body gets a low blow for having "pms" and being too emotional , highly sensitive creatures. I beg to differ, but thats only my opinion. Has the animal species step down a notch and just laid it out on the table.. When a feline is in heat or aka,,* Im Horny and I want some of that* they just cry out and scream until a Male comes and gives it to her.. Talk about control. If the only life was that simple. Typically the Male gets on , gets in and gets out, give or take she ends up being knocked up , and left with all the kitty bearing to take on herself,,hahaha go figure.!! Just boils down to sex and satisfying the natural urges. If the low food chain male cat can pick up and leave once the load is done, nor wonder why the human male does the same thing. Ever wonder why the divorce rate is so high. Its like a new trend. Oh well if it doesn't work out Ill just divorce them in a few months . Oh hell , lets not get married spread you're seeds around a bit, perhaps settle down for a bit when the important holidays come around, and then speed off faster than a drag car race. Wonder why I haven't been married, lived with anyone, for me to realize that they are just going to get bored with me anyways???? I'll be lying if I said I haven't been in-love, but when can we say.. are we there yet?? Its all about finding that special someone and living in a the bedroom dream fairy tale...Then you wake up and think wtf was I thinking.??? Relationships tend to be more stressful, disappointing and little by little chipping away from who we truly are. Then before you know it, you have the incredible high-towered wall from your heart being mangled around threw a blender a few times. Not being able to trust and being in the train of thought.."I will never Love again" Relationships are like second job, so you call in sick a few times, perhaps do somethings that gets you fired, and than add some more "experiences" to your resume. Are we overly Evaluating things?? and expected more than what we get???. Of course we are, you don't leave in the movies, this is real and uncensored. Blood, guts, pain, just gotta know when to call it quits. Break-ups happen, people get hurt, cheat, lie, corruptions never felt so good. Its who can hurt who first and come out with the big powerful firework display!!! Everyone does it, lets things go at first. (you know the lil things that bother you about them.) Think,....... well maybe they will change,?? or it doesn't bother me that much,!!??? until a few months, years, later thats the first thing you bring up first when you know its going to end. Well I shoulda ...woulda.... coulda.... The whole "trial period" shouldn't be taken so lightly.

One out of 3.....:)

You can only pick ONE out of the 3..

Corona, Smirnoff or Bud light?
Corona.. fo sho

Flowers, Candy, or Cards?
ummm cards??.. :)

Beer, Wine, or Mixed drinks:
Beer

Football, soccer or baseball:
Football GO COWBOYS!!! ( hot muscle men in tight pants)

Kiss, Hand Holding, or Hug?
Kissing

Buy, Borrow, or Lease:
Buy

Ford, Chevy, or Dodge.
Ford

Email, Telephone, or Letter?
Letter

California, New York, or Florida?
California

Kisses on the Neck, Stomach, or Ears?
Kisses on the neck !!! :P

Morning, Afternoon, or Night?
Night

Christmas, Thanksgiving, or Halloween:
umm i guess xmas,, not the one of my fave's...St, Patty's Day is MY ALL TIME FAVE

Dogs, Cats, or Hamsters:
umm dogs,, but i like cats too..
.
Beach, Mountains, or Desert
Beach who doesn't like the beach!??!!

Cookies, Cake, or Brownies
mmm depends,, is it homemade??? ill take whatever that is homemade!!

March, July, or October:
- October

Breakfast, Lunch, or Dinner:
Dinner

Giver, Sharer, or Keeper:
Giver

Eyes, Nose, or Mouth:
hmmm eyes are always nice, but mouth hmm has its appeal

Friends that lie, Enemies that pretend to be your friend, or Alone:
Alone

1. last beverage:
Green Tea

2. last in-coming call:
Work

3. last cd played:
who listens to cd's anymore?? lol...

4. last time you cried:
ummm its been awhile....

5. last text message:
Korry

THIS MONTH HAVE YOU.

1. Made a new friend?
Yes

2. Laughed until you cried?
well almost in tears...

3. Met someone who changed your life?
umm in the past month,,?? dont recall no..

4. Found out who are your true friends?
Yup

5.How many kids do you want to have?
umm not sure..

6. Do you have any pets?
yes two trouble makin cats

7. Do you wanna change your name?
nope..all good there

8. What did you do yesterday?
stayed home,....Im sick with a COLD:(

9. Do you get butterflies when you talk to that "special" someone?
butterflies??
well i wouldn't say it was butterflies,,but its something:D

10. What were you doing at 10:30 p.m last night?
umm i think watchin a movie..and talkin on msn...

11. last time you saw your father
on Tuesday

12. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life?
would of went to school and could of been more serious with what I do for a living

13. What are you listening to right now?
nothing...

14. Mariah, Madonna, Christina or Britney?
Madonna

Somethiing New to Try

well

......So I figured hmmm .....what can i do this year that I never did, that could be fun, new and exciting ??? ummm.....Oh I know......start blogging !!!???

its a new year...Why the Hell not!!

I cant believe its already 2008,,, my gosh where in the heck did this year go??? Seems like the older you get the faster time goes by, the more you learn and possibly more you want to forget.. Accomplish things that you never thought you could or more less walk daily with one eye closed and hope for the best????. I just hope this year something happens thats actually good for a change. Good and Change is something I haven't seen in a long ass time!!!. I managed to do a lot of stupid and unsuccessful things this past year. Although I've made some friends, had some laughs and did some of my own housecleaning from last year. Adjusting to those Housecleanings-aka *getting rid of anything dirty, and destructive such as an old bf!!!!*... well wasn't something I enjoyed. Well actually kinda....But it was all worth it in the end... So now Im left with a clean page for this year,,, so far,, I started this year with a COLD...yes,, indeed,, New Years Eve,, I kinda felt blah,, draggy,, the feeling that you know when you feel like your going to be sick with a cold. Sure enough New Years Day, I WAS SICK,, :(

Coughing, Running noise, like the shit'in a Basket....Ya for me...Not looking up to what I want. Although if all this year brings me is a cold, and perhaps some lil lows here and there...I can manage that!!! You cant have your Hi's in Life without the downers...

Just glad I was off for the Holidays!! Hurray, ya goin on 8 years of working at the hospital its about damn time I get it off. I've worked every Christmas since 99, and this Year I got BOTH New Years and Christmas off..I don't mind working there though I cant complain. Good Befits, pays my rent, my bills...So,, in all fairness its all good. Have seen a lot of stuff though,. Things I'd rather not. People dying, the sick getting sicker, Families forgetting about love ones. and sometimes even the care not so well...But all people say about that is "well thats life"...I have some favorites and seen some of them pass away which is hard. All goes with the Job I guess..Just try not to bring it home with me, not forgetting , just leaving it somewhere else.

Thats why I love being on my own,.Moved out when I was like 19-20years of age. Absolutely love it!!! Can walk around in my panties and Bra, come home at all hours, have anyone over whenever, eat whatever I want, everything I have is MINE. Although I worked my ass off for it, and I do go without something considering I don't not have a room-mate. Never really liked the whole idea with having a room-mate. Having to worry about someone else,?? I can barely take care of myself let alone having to deal with another person hide away secrets. I like my place clean,, not like overly clean though, just tidy and things kept in their place. I've had previous Bf's not live with me, but stay over a lot. After awhile, you learn that people change after a good year, and dirty habits and secret ways of living come out. Its all in the matter if you can live with it and be able to manage and still be happy...Lets just say in the dating scene I failed miserably.

But who knows

I guess you just know

who's the right

person