Well ,, since I have the time & Im Bored as hell...lol.. Figured I would share a few thoughts that I had discussed prior to this blogspot. I've been talking with a few of my guy friends...Seems like most of them come to me for advice...haha not too sure on why. Still yet an unsolved Mystery.
THIS IS FOR YOU!!!
Rather than me overly REPEAT MYSELF with emails the phone calls and talking on MSN.I thought would make a standard plot on paper sorta deal.... (yes Whitey this is for u!! lol.....)
If you didn't message me, or talked to me about you're relationships, then this is not for you. If you do happen to read this and your clueless about the do's and don't's about dating, than ya I guess you can read........but actually DO IT,,and take some advice!!!! lol...
Geez who Am'I to give out pointers about dating,??? haven't had much success yet :-S
Ah Oh well, you asked the questions (many of you) and I will BE happy to give you my input.....
When I said about the fact of not liking when a guy tells me I'm Hot,,, I think you may took my words and miss read them READ in between the lines...
Every girl wants to hear that they are Beautiful,, Sexy,, those are the main ones....HOT is so NOT!!!! but really mean it when you say it.
In other words just don't say it to get us to sleep with you!! We know the lines and if you want to make a comment about us, then say something clever, "like i like your hair that way" or "wow your eyes really look good in that shirt" Rather than Damnn girl your HOT,,!!!!
We know we look HOT tell us something we didn't think of. Alright so you wanna know more about romance,???? Hmmm well if you're single and over 29, hmm maybe theres a reason why you are single??? lol..Sorry but by that age YOU should know how to be more romantic and not have to ask me or any other girl on " How to Be More Romantic"...But whatever I guess everyone grows a lil slower than some... SO, in the secret girl language.. ( and don't act like you don't care about us) We know you do!!! HELL it's fricken SEXY when I guy can tell you that he cares and let some emotion out. Don't beso insensitive and cold!!! Its not HOT at all and certainly wont get you any """extra points"" (in the sack!!!!)
Lets see, you can start with opening car doors once in awhile,, not all the time,, but sure makes us feel good..You can give massages, (who doesn't like a massage???!!!!) umm,, of course there is ALWAYS FLOWERS & CARDS!!!! & if you don't know what kind she really likes,well take her to the Flower part in the grocery store next time (even say your getting flowers for your mom or something and ask her what does she think you should get) yes little lies are ok,,,when it comes to things like that...
Now all this depends on where you are in the relationship or if you want to get her attention etc...Small things are the Best,, over trying just gets messy !!!! Send her txt msg, that your missing her or you cant wait till you see her next!!! Or Call and leave a message when you know she cant answer her phone.. If you haven't Called you girl any pet names... than do it!! Hun and babe,, makes us feel important.. What about asking about her DAY?? ever thought about that one???
Do something thats creative and fun and don't tell her where you are taking her!! Make it a surprise!!!!! Rather than a movie,. Movies/dinner are good, but sometimes it's nice to be surprised..Make dinner for her,, rather than going out!!!!
Don't feel like if we want to pay sometimes that your less of a man or something..... ( if we want to buy the next round of beers just SAY THANK YOU and enjoy your free beer!!!! )
We want to help and flip the bill too,, (unless they are selfish and gold diggers than,,DUMP HER!!!)
Now here comes the sticky part, you gotta make sure your girl knows she is the only one YOU want to be with or interested in. If your out there pickin up other pussy cats than stop!!! Get out of a relationship,,,, !!! Thats sooo not cool, playing around is so last season... !!! Not saying you cant look,,,( yes we look too) just be respectful..
Would you like it if you found out your girl was freakin some guy on the dance floor buyin her drinks and kissin her neck as he is sayin the things you NEVER TELL HER!!!! hmmm dudes think about it... Being cold,, and insensitive,, is something that will not end good... She will get tired and either leave or go find someone else that tends to her needs
(YES there is romantic guys out there!! I know that ..So you do have competition!!!) Or she will Cheat, perhaps stay with you for a bit and just end it.Have you notice you fight a lot?? She nags about you goin out with your buddies, the dishes, how you drive, or anything and everything...?? ( in other words if you haven't done anyone of those things at least once!?!?!.Secretly she is trying to grab your attention!!!) Treat your girls right,, most of you don't even know what you have until its gone!!!
Hmmmm hmmmmm sound familiar????? All I'm saying is that we want to feel important and appreciated and that you care. Show it and if your buddies call you whipped and a pussy ,, ( lol they are just pissed cuz you got her first!!!) So grab her hand while walking down the street we don't want the MOON given to us, we just want you to show that you want ONLY us and care!!! Now for some you guys have already did the BIG "L" word,, now saying I love you is certainly for those who are in more serious relationships..
Now don't say it until you mean it!!! Don't say it if you have recently said it to some other girl (if thats he case YOUR AN ASSHOLE!!!) in a email on the phone on a date, if your getting in bed with more than one women at a time ( and she doesn't know about it) listen up, you will get yours sooner or later, unless its an open relationship and you both agree on seeing other ppl than fine!!
but
good luck!! .,.,
If you told her your just with ONLY her and your not!! (I know who you are!!!) sorry hun,, but you gotta stop it!!! Just be single than,.. young girls don't deserve it and your risking a lot.... And you wonder why there are crazy bitches out there,, cuz they got burned by one too many ASSHOLES that cheat and play around!!! Sorry had to say it,,
As for SEX!!!! Yea we all want you to be good in bed!! (yes sadly we compare you to our ex bf's,) Sorry but if your just worried about ONLY you chances are you will get it less and less of a chance that we will say yes to sex..Every girl wants to pleased just like you so if your not taking your time making sure her pipes are up and running than maybe next time you want to make the moves than we might JUST have a head ache that night,, !!
So touch your girl,,EVERYWHERE!!! if you want her to play with your Tool in your toolbox, you gotta make sure we are getting the deed done too!! Quickies are fun don't get me wrong can be hot and exciting but foreplay is key at times!!! If your not sure...ask her!!!!!. Chances are if you take the time to make sure she is all hot and ready to go,, she will BE more than willing to give it back...
On a GOOD point,, if your just a guy who is kinda ruff when it comes to dating,, take my advice,, think about what would you like,, such as if we are in the mall and we remember that you wanted to latest DVD on the family guy and we see it, there's a good chances that we might pick it up and surprise you!! You make us feel important and you think of us than chances are we will do the same!!!!
I hope i answered everything and do try somethings
just might get you somewhere!!!
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